You fantasize about doing crazy things in bed with your girl, but she’s a little timid when it comes to the more daring aspects of sex.
Well, if you want her to let loose and start riding you like a freak, here’s what you should do to make her more comfortable with herself and, more importantly, you. Join buddiesfuck.com websites to get sex near your place tonight.
Hang out with her wild friends
Just about every woman has a bunch of wild friends who know how to let loose. Plan a night out with your girl and her friends (and their boyfriends, if applicable) and head to a nightclub, where booze and loud music abound.
Encourage the ladies to dance together and have fun, and then invite the crowd over to your house for some more drinks and dancing. Keep the music pumping, the alcohol flowing and encourage the ladies to get wild. After they all leave, keep the vibe going with your girl and she might just show you how wild she can be in private.
Use alcohol & good conversation
Now I’m not encouraging you to get your girl wasted, but it’s a fact that alcohol tends to lower people’s inhibitions. So pop opens a bottle of whatever it is she likes to drink, and drink and talk. As the evening progresses, you’ll notice that the both of you will begin to lower your guards. It’s at this point that the conversation should take a sexual turn.
Begin discussing sex and her fantasies (let her do all the talking). Ask questions about what she’s fantasized about if she starts getting shy. For example:
- Have you ever fantasized about two men seducing you? Tell me about it.
- Where would you have a better sex life in public?
- Have you ever imagined how it would feel to kiss another woman?This should get the game started. If you ever answer any of her “Have you ever…” questions, make sure all your fantasies include her.
Every once in a while, my girl and I rent a sex flick, pop opens a bottle of wine, talk for a while, then watch the movie and go crazy on each other. There’s something about hearing others make sexual noises that have a penetrating effect on us.
Of course, the sex that’s featuring in the movie can’t be all-out raunchy; it should involve two or three people and these people should engage in sex that the two of you could, say, mimic.
Introduce something new, and set it all up for a good cause
Take her out of her element
Leave home and take her somewhere she’s never been with you, like a motel, hotel, bed, and breakfast, or even a simple limo ride around town. The fact that there’s nothing for her to do but enjoy herself allows her to become more sexually aware of herself and the situation.
Treat her to an evening of subtle romance and kinky sex by setting up the scene with blindfolds, tethers and whatever else you think she might go for.
Treat her to a classy dinner & sexy outfit
Set up a date… a hot date. Buy her a sexy outfit, even if she’s not used to dressing that way. My girl always tells me that when she’s dressed sexy, she feels sexy. Keep in mind, however, that there’s a fine line between sexy and raunchy. A short black dress and lacy lingerie will do (ask for a friend’s help, if necessary).
Take her out to a classy restaurant (if this is too expensive, then take her to a piano or hotel bar), show her off to the world, and tell her how sexy she is, all the while letting her know that you can’t wait to get her out of those clothes. Keep the verbal foreplay going in public, and then take her to wherever it is you want to end off the evening and get busy.
Set the scene
Although it’s not a guarantee in and of itself, the right ambiance is conducive to wilder sex. Use our free hookup app for dating tonight.
Figure out if she prefers candlelight, red lighting or even fluorescent strips joint lights, and use it. Then, play the right kind of music (something with a wild beat is preferable) and turn it up loud enough that you feel the beat.
Lastly, ensure that the room looks and smells right. Clean and fresh is the way to go.
Be vocal about her body
Tell her she’s sexy and means it. For example, inhale through your teeth when she’s undressing and tell her that you find her so sexy that you just want to ravish her.
Once you’re done with the flattery, ask her to undress for you… slowly. If she complies, set the ambiance and move on to the next tip.
We’re usually the ones who are eager to get to the sex, but what if we weren’t? What if you manipulate her body and rub your hands all around her, avoiding her breasts and vagina so that when you finally do tap your tongue against her clitoris, she’s soaking wet? Do you think she’d let you do just about anything to get her off? You’re damn straight she will. Use our adult dating site that give a chance to meet for sex.
Cup either side of her waist with your hands, look at her as though you’re starving, and begin licking on her hips, stomach, right under her breasts, and her pubic mound (or mons veneris).
Spread her legs open and bring your mouth close to her vagina, but don’t suck on it. Then bring yourself up to her breasts and lick near the areola, but don’t suck her nipples. Keep this going for as long as you can.
Before you know it, she’ll turn into an animal and do the ravishing.